allow force-ordering hierarchy nodes hierarchically

[ajtmccarty]

fixes #5292
IFC-1025

the root cause of the RecursionError is a problem in how we calculate the hierarchy for nodes in a diff
if a hierarchical schema has order_by set, then the nodes returned from the NodeGetHierarchyQuery will be returned according to that order_by value. The DiffHierarchyEnricher expects the nodes returned by NodeGetHierarchyQuery to be in their hierarchical order and, if they are in a different order, the results will be unexpected and can cause the diff to be illegally constructed with nodes referencing one another as their parents

the solution in this PR is to add a new hierarchical_ordering parameter to NodeGetHierarchyQuery and set that to True inside of DiffHierarchyEnricher

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #5420 will not alter performance

_{Comparing ajtm-01092025-hierarchy-ordering (74ed844) with stable (7e6f318)}

Summary

✅ 10 untouched benchmarks

[dgarros]

Good catch