feat(go/adbc/driver/flightsql): enable incremental queries #179

Job	Run time
check (ubuntu, adbcdrivermanager) / r-check	2m 6s
check (ubuntu, adbcflightsql) / r-check	6m 48s
check (ubuntu, adbcpostgresql) / r-check	1m 51s
check (ubuntu, adbcsqlite) / r-check	1m 48s
check (ubuntu, adbcsnowflake) / r-check	6m 54s
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